secret of kissing

Hello borhan,

Welcome to the second part of my free email mini-sex guide. Yesterday
you learned about the #1 rule to becoming an awesome lover:

PAY ATTENTION!

Today, we're going to cover step number two, which is the subtle art
of kissing.

Lots of people overlook the importance of kissing. But make no mistake
about it, nothing is a bigger turn off than a bad kisser!


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The Most Important Thing To Remember When Kissing Is (and this harkens
back to lesson #1) to "PAY ATTENTION!"
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Now, I know this sounds like a no brainer,but believe me that when I
say "pay attention," I want you to pay attention in a different way than
your probably used to.

Here is what I mean...

I have sex with about 9 out of every 10 women I go out with on the
very first meeting. (This is not bragging. I'm telling you this to
demonstrate a point.)

I do it by paying special attention to some things most guys don't
think about or pay attention to.

Here's how I can tell if a woman is ready to be kissed...

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1. PUPIL DILATION - The bigger her pupils are, the more into you she
is, now if you're in a very dark environment this could be a bit
misleading but by and large the bigger the pupils the better the odds.

2. PROTRUDING LOWER LIPS- Women will tell you that when a woman's
lower lip starts protruding, almost in a "pouting" type of way,
it's a signal she's extremely interested and sexually aroused.

(These two factors apply to men as well, but let's face it, men
are ALWAYS ready to be kissed! =)

There are lots more body cues we can work with but for now that's enough.

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Now, Why would I Want To pay Attention To Those Kinds Of Body Cues?
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It's simple really when you think about it:

If I'm not getting the signals that she is ready to be kissed I need
to do something to get her level of arousal up before I go any further!

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The #1 Reason WHY You Need To Be GOOD At Kissing
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You see, one of the things that turns women on is the build up, the
sexual tension that comes from wondering what the first kiss is going
to be like. And if your first kiss is a Dud, then as far as she is
concerned...

So Are You!

There are lots more body language cues you can work with and I cover
them pretty well in my "Secret Orgasm Tips Home Study Course.

" I also cover some Killer Personality Traits that just make women
go all gooey inside and excite their imagination about you (Ladies,
if you want your partner to please you in the best way possible, you
can't find a better resource).


But here is something you can work with until you can get the course
for yourself.

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The Secret of Listening to Her Lips
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Do This And I Promise You She Will Respond To You Better And Faster
Than She Has To Any Other Man:

When you go in for the kiss, cup her face in both of your hands so
that your palms are gently cradling her jaw line and your thumbs are
just in front of cheek bones.

(You can also place your hands further back with your thumbs just in
front of her ears if that's more comfortable for you.)

This allows you to contour her face and guide it where you want her
to go.

This helps to avoid the possibility of kissing her too hard and too
fast, which is akin to smacking her in the teeth.

C'mon, you know we have all done it. =D

In our rush to get the kiss we move too fast, or are unsure of our
distance, timing and pressure and suddenly --- BANG!

Your loving lip lock turns into a less than exciting clash of the molars!

Now when you deliberately move her face in toward yours, I want you
to look her in the eyes and slowly close your eyes as you gently
bring her face to yours.

I want you to touch her lips to yours as lightly as you can and I
want you to sense and pay attention to several things...

This takes practice to get good at but once you do... She's yours!

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Here's What You PAY ATTENTION To During The Kiss:
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--How much pressure is she using to kiss you?

--Is she pressing her lips hard against yours, soft?

--What kind of force is she exerting with her lips?

Also, notice the configuration of her lips for the kiss:

--Is she a fish kisser?

--Does she open her mouth very wide?

--Does she keep her lips close together?

--Pay attention to what she is doing to you!

Kiss her gently and allow yourself to feel how she is kissing you.

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THIS IS CRITICAL!
Don't Focus On Kissing Her... Focus On How She Is Kissing You!
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(Ladies,the same goes for you)

This is a concept I learned from "Tai Chi Push Hands" called "listening."

Its the ability to sense and interpret subtle changes in pressure and
energy through your sense of touch -- in this case via your lips.

In The Sexual System I Teach We Combine The "Listening Skill" With A
Secret Sexual Master-Key Known As "Projection"


Here is where "listening" meets "projection" ALLOWING YOU TO CREATE
HER PERFECT KISS!

Here's how it works!

Remember, she already has an internal checklist of what a kiss is
supposed to feel like for her.

By paying attention to the way she kisses you then kissing her back
exactly the same way, you validate her internal sexual model of how
things work,demonstrate you are just like her and you perfectly fire
off all the "internal mental, physical and emotional signals" that tell
her mind body and emotions its okay to go to the next level.

In other words to become...

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SEXUALLY AND ROMANTICALLY EXCITED AND AROUSED!
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In hypnosis we would call this "pacing and leading."

Now Lets Sweeten the Deal a bit...

Once you have matched her particular style of kissing and you're
effectively doing it back to her the same way, you can start to direct
her a bit more.

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The Act Of Kissing Her The Way She Kisses You Dramatically Deepens
The Sense Of "Connection" And "Rapport" She Is Going To Have With You.
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Continue to pay attention to her responses. Think in terms of simply
wanting to give her pleasure and paying attention to her responses.

Once you have matched her kissing style you now have a couple of choices:

You can continue to kiss the way she does...

OR

You can slowly begin to alter your method of kissing and see if she
responds by following you.

When she follows you by changing her way of kissing you now have more
freedom to play.

I go far more in-depth about kissing and creating massive sexual
pleasure in your partner inside my home study course "Secret Orgasm Tips."

You won't find this information in any book store. Hell, you won't
even find it anywhere else on the INTERNET!

Why?

Because this information is just too good, and stems from my 15 years
of experimentation and refinement of these techniques.

The simple fact of the matter is that if you want to be a great lover
and experience true sexual ecstasy with your partner, you need to pick
this home study course up today.

You can download it and be learning all my dirty little tricks and
secrets in just a few minutes by clicking below:



But hurry. I don't know how much longer I'll keep this information
available.

It's just too good!

Your Friend and Loyal Sex Coach

David Van Arrick
aka -- The Master


PS: Tomorrow, the real fun begins! Stay tuned...