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Monday, December 29, 2008

How To Give Your Woman 5 to 10 Orgasms In One Night!‏

In my experience all women are capable of multiple
orgasms and continuous orgasms, (there is a difference
by the way). Now if your woman says she is satisfied
with one (and you believe her), that would more than
likely be the end of the story.

However many women who "say" they are satisfied with
just one orgasm have trained themselves to be that way
and this is usually for one of several reasons.

A)The first orgasm is intense and she gets too sensitive
afterwards; as in your case.

B) She doesn't believe she can have multiples because
she has never had them before.

C) Every so often there are control issues involved that
may take a little more skill and finesse to overcome.

In this newsletter we will deal directly with your particular
situation. First of all every woman (barring physiological
or psychological issues) is capable of achieving multiple
orgasms beyond a shadow of a doubt just as all women can
have an ejaculatory orgasm!

The challenge becomes -- how do you get her there?

When your woman gets too sensitive (which happens with
every woman by the way) all you really have to do is cut the
intensity of your stimulation to about one tenth of what you
did to get her to orgasm in the first place.

(This does take some finesse and practice by the way but
it's well the time it takes to learn this sexually awe inspiring
skill.)

This is where techniques like the magic touch and the ten keys
to maximum sexual arousal taught in my book absolutely must
come into play.

Remember I said in book one that orgasms make a woman
more responsive to sexual stimulation and that's true, but like
men, women also have a "refractory period" between orgasms
during which time the same level and type of stimulation will
cause "over-stimulation and discomfort to her?"

In order to counteract this effect you can do one or all of the
following:

A) Decrease the amount of pressure you're using (the one tenth rule
is a good place to start). Magic Touching will help you get beyond
this barrier to multiple orgasms by training you to have a more
sensitive and delicate touch that lets you skyrocket her sexual
desire and arousal without have to press or stroke nearly as hard.

Using too much pressure is a common mistake when fingering or using
your tongue and the training exercises in "Secret Orgasm Tips" will
help you tremendously. They have made a huge difference in my love
making skills and they will do the same for you!

B) Switch the type of stimulation you are using along with the
pressure. If you're using an up and down stroke change to a circular
stroke. If you are using a two or three finger split, switch to
palming or giving oral, etc. Anything that changes the stimulation
and delivered lightly and gradually getting stronger in proportion
to her ability to enjoy it will help you get her to her next
climax.

Pay Attention To Her Responses... Always! Her Body Will Tell
You Everything You Need to Know!

C) Target another orgasm generating spot i.e. G- spot, deep spot
etc (this is where chaining comes in really handy.

D) Resume maximum sexual arousal using the "Secret Orgasm
Tips" until her refractory period is over and go for her next
orgasm.

Using the techniques in Secret Orgasm Tips can significantly
shorten the female orgasm refractory period and have her ready to
climax again in minutes.

If you haven't already downloaded your personal copy of "Secret
Orgasm Tips," what are you waiting for? These are the absolute
BEST secrets for taking you from "Joe average lover" to "Sexual
Super Star" in minimum time!

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Tuesday, December 16, 2008

secret of kissing

Hello borhan,

Welcome to the second part of my free email mini-sex guide. Yesterday
you learned about the #1 rule to becoming an awesome lover:

PAY ATTENTION!

Today, we're going to cover step number two, which is the subtle art
of kissing.

Lots of people overlook the importance of kissing. But make no mistake
about it, nothing is a bigger turn off than a bad kisser!


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The Most Important Thing To Remember When Kissing Is (and this harkens
back to lesson #1) to "PAY ATTENTION!"
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Now, I know this sounds like a no brainer,but believe me that when I
say "pay attention," I want you to pay attention in a different way than
your probably used to.

Here is what I mean...

I have sex with about 9 out of every 10 women I go out with on the
very first meeting. (This is not bragging. I'm telling you this to
demonstrate a point.)

I do it by paying special attention to some things most guys don't
think about or pay attention to.

Here's how I can tell if a woman is ready to be kissed...

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1. PUPIL DILATION - The bigger her pupils are, the more into you she
is, now if you're in a very dark environment this could be a bit
misleading but by and large the bigger the pupils the better the odds.

2. PROTRUDING LOWER LIPS- Women will tell you that when a woman's
lower lip starts protruding, almost in a "pouting" type of way,
it's a signal she's extremely interested and sexually aroused.

(These two factors apply to men as well, but let's face it, men
are ALWAYS ready to be kissed! =)

There are lots more body cues we can work with but for now that's enough.

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Now, Why would I Want To pay Attention To Those Kinds Of Body Cues?
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It's simple really when you think about it:

If I'm not getting the signals that she is ready to be kissed I need
to do something to get her level of arousal up before I go any further!

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The #1 Reason WHY You Need To Be GOOD At Kissing
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You see, one of the things that turns women on is the build up, the
sexual tension that comes from wondering what the first kiss is going
to be like. And if your first kiss is a Dud, then as far as she is
concerned...

So Are You!

There are lots more body language cues you can work with and I cover
them pretty well in my "Secret Orgasm Tips Home Study Course.

" I also cover some Killer Personality Traits that just make women
go all gooey inside and excite their imagination about you (Ladies,
if you want your partner to please you in the best way possible, you
can't find a better resource).


But here is something you can work with until you can get the course
for yourself.

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The Secret of Listening to Her Lips
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Do This And I Promise You She Will Respond To You Better And Faster
Than She Has To Any Other Man:

When you go in for the kiss, cup her face in both of your hands so
that your palms are gently cradling her jaw line and your thumbs are
just in front of cheek bones.

(You can also place your hands further back with your thumbs just in
front of her ears if that's more comfortable for you.)

This allows you to contour her face and guide it where you want her
to go.

This helps to avoid the possibility of kissing her too hard and too
fast, which is akin to smacking her in the teeth.

C'mon, you know we have all done it. =D

In our rush to get the kiss we move too fast, or are unsure of our
distance, timing and pressure and suddenly --- BANG!

Your loving lip lock turns into a less than exciting clash of the molars!

Now when you deliberately move her face in toward yours, I want you
to look her in the eyes and slowly close your eyes as you gently
bring her face to yours.

I want you to touch her lips to yours as lightly as you can and I
want you to sense and pay attention to several things...

This takes practice to get good at but once you do... She's yours!

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Here's What You PAY ATTENTION To During The Kiss:
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--How much pressure is she using to kiss you?

--Is she pressing her lips hard against yours, soft?

--What kind of force is she exerting with her lips?

Also, notice the configuration of her lips for the kiss:

--Is she a fish kisser?

--Does she open her mouth very wide?

--Does she keep her lips close together?

--Pay attention to what she is doing to you!

Kiss her gently and allow yourself to feel how she is kissing you.

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THIS IS CRITICAL!
Don't Focus On Kissing Her... Focus On How She Is Kissing You!
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(Ladies,the same goes for you)

This is a concept I learned from "Tai Chi Push Hands" called "listening."

Its the ability to sense and interpret subtle changes in pressure and
energy through your sense of touch -- in this case via your lips.

In The Sexual System I Teach We Combine The "Listening Skill" With A
Secret Sexual Master-Key Known As "Projection"


Here is where "listening" meets "projection" ALLOWING YOU TO CREATE
HER PERFECT KISS!

Here's how it works!

Remember, she already has an internal checklist of what a kiss is
supposed to feel like for her.

By paying attention to the way she kisses you then kissing her back
exactly the same way, you validate her internal sexual model of how
things work,demonstrate you are just like her and you perfectly fire
off all the "internal mental, physical and emotional signals" that tell
her mind body and emotions its okay to go to the next level.

In other words to become...

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SEXUALLY AND ROMANTICALLY EXCITED AND AROUSED!
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In hypnosis we would call this "pacing and leading."

Now Lets Sweeten the Deal a bit...

Once you have matched her particular style of kissing and you're
effectively doing it back to her the same way, you can start to direct
her a bit more.

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The Act Of Kissing Her The Way She Kisses You Dramatically Deepens
The Sense Of "Connection" And "Rapport" She Is Going To Have With You.
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Continue to pay attention to her responses. Think in terms of simply
wanting to give her pleasure and paying attention to her responses.

Once you have matched her kissing style you now have a couple of choices:

You can continue to kiss the way she does...

OR

You can slowly begin to alter your method of kissing and see if she
responds by following you.

When she follows you by changing her way of kissing you now have more
freedom to play.

I go far more in-depth about kissing and creating massive sexual
pleasure in your partner inside my home study course "Secret Orgasm Tips."

You won't find this information in any book store. Hell, you won't
even find it anywhere else on the INTERNET!

Why?

Because this information is just too good, and stems from my 15 years
of experimentation and refinement of these techniques.

The simple fact of the matter is that if you want to be a great lover
and experience true sexual ecstasy with your partner, you need to pick
this home study course up today.

You can download it and be learning all my dirty little tricks and
secrets in just a few minutes by clicking below:



But hurry. I don't know how much longer I'll keep this information
available.

It's just too good!

Your Friend and Loyal Sex Coach

David Van Arrick
aka -- The Master


PS: Tomorrow, the real fun begins! Stay tuned...

Thursday, December 11, 2008

How to Give a Female a Orgasm!

Learning how to give a female a orgasm can be much more difficult than you think. Males usually reach climax much easier, and much quicker than females. And some females require extra special tricks and techniques to achieve great orgasms.

So, how to give a female a orgasm? Well there are some general surefire techniques that will almost always work. Here they are:

1. Lasting long enough.

One of the best things you can do as a lover is to make sure you are able to last long enough during sex. This is where many males come up short, and thus their female partners fail to achieve orgasm. Research techniques and exercises which you can practice so that your lasting power is greatly increased.

2. Foreplay and the Clitoris.

Focus your attention on the clitoris during foreplay until your stimulations begin to arouse. This guarantees that you are on the right road to giving your female partner an orgasm. From here you just need to keep up the rhythm, and eventually transfer over to intercourse where orgasm should be achieved.

3. Learn sex tips and variety techniques.

There are actual sex tips which focus specifically on techniques you can perform which will solve the question of how to give a female a orgasm. These usually range from touching techniques, to actual sex practice where simply tweaking and adjusting a thing or two will bring on incredible pleasures. The best thing about studying sex tips is the amount of variety you learn. And that is really the key to providing pleasurable orgasms, keeping things fresh, new and exciting through a variety of different sex technique.

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How To Turn A Fridgid, Unresponsive Woman Into Your Sex Slave.

One of the most gratifying parts of the work
that I do is helping people to overcome
obstacles that they may face in their sexual
lives.

I do this kind of work on a number of levels.

As a hypnotist, a practitioner of Oriental
Medicine, as a sex coach and ultimately as a
giver of information and dispelling many of
the myths and erroneous concepts that keep us
sexually in the stone ages...

(now don't get me wrong some people are really
turned on by being dragged around by their
hair... but that another topic completely.)

Perhaps the most immediate and global means
that I have to help as many folks out there
as possible is simply my ability to be able
to communicate with each and every one of you
out there.

Man or woman, all of us can benefit from
having an expanded understanding of our
sexuality and just how much joy, excitement,
pleasure, and fulfillment is possible when
you apply the secrets I am teaching you.

Today's question is from Doc, who writes...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Dear David,

Are there women totally incapable of orgasm?
Especially the ejaculatory. Is there an age
limit for women for orgasm?

MY RESPONSE:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


Are there women totally incapable of orgasming?

To this question I have to qualify my answer.
If she is a healthy biologically sound woman
with all her parts intact, then yes! I believe
she is more than capable of orgasm.

Now, depending on her experiences growing up,
her past sexual history etc. there could be
some barriers to orgasm that may be in place.

I will share one such experience that ultimately
resulted in my beautiful paramour having the most
orgasmic experiences of her life, whereas prior
to our getting together she could never orgasm
with a partner before.

(I know, I'm THAT darn good. =)

I met this young woman through the INTERNET. We
exchanged pics and emails and finally met in
person.

It didn't take long for us to escalate our
relationship to the bedroom.

I noticed that she really, really loved sex, but
when she got close to orgasm she would pull back
or stop.

It took me a while to gain her trust about this
but she finally confided to me that she had been
molested when she was young and after that she
was never able to allow herself to have an orgasm
with a male partner.

Well at that point, being the compassionate soul
that I am, I made it my mission to free her from
her non-orgasmic prison.

It took a couple weeks, but finally one night I
looked her in the eyes and told her I wanted to
give her an orgasm.

She looked uncertain but my foreplay skills are
rather formidable, and her G-spot was primed for
pleasure!

(How to do this is explained in detail in my
book "Ten Keys to Maximum Sexual Arousal!")

After I had gotten her aroused to the necessary
level using the "Ten Keys," I began using my
special technique for creating the one orgasm
women can not fake.

I knew it would take a while without using the
rule of three, but I wanted to be sure she
wouldn't be holding herself back and then lie
to me about having an orgasm.

Women faking orgasms is a huge problem for us
men, and most women fail to recognize that faking
an orgasm only serves to perpetuate the less
than adequate sexual skills of their male lovers.

But because women are so bent on not hurting their
man's feelings, they fake orgasms, thus giving men
the wrong kind of feedback...

In other words, men think what they are doing is
working when it really isn't, and because they
think its working, they keep doing it...

It's a vicious cycle that... oops! I am off topic
again... sorry!

Back to the topic at hand...

Fifteen minutes after I began using my special
techniques, Elsie suddenly finds herself on my
bed wriggling in full-blown ecstasy as her body
is being rocked by one ultra powerful orgasmic
shockwave after another.

By the time it was over (or at least mostly over)
all she could do was lay there in a fetal position
soaking in a huge puddle of her own female ejaculate
totally and completely swept away and overwhelmed
by the tsunami-like force of her own orgasm!

Now, in Elsie's case, it took some time for me to
dissolve her sexual barriers and gain her trust
to the point where I could bring her to orgasm
and she would allow herself to be brought to
climax.

Most women that you meet will not have such hard
core issues, although they may have many
pre-conceived notions, myths and misconceptions
about what is possible for them based on the
experiences they have had with other lovers and
the books they have read.

The single biggest key for helping your woman
achieve orgasm is mastering the art of sexual
arousal.

Master this one area of sexual expertise and
women will beat a path to your door!

Are there any age limits to women achieving an
orgasm?

In my experience, there is no upper age limit for
a woman to experience an orgasm.

My personal belief is that women in their 80's
and 90's would still love to have good orgasms
and the more, the merrier.

For all I know, they may still enjoy them through
masturbation or from their husbands or significant
others. The onset of menopause only signifies the
end of childbearing years, not the end of a woman's
ability to be sexually responsive or experience
and enjoy orgasm.

In fact, I have gotten letters from folks in their
eighties thanking me for sharing my techniques
and how by using them they have significantly
improved their sex life after 50 years of marriage.

The simple truth is unless your heart won't take
the pressure (check with your doctors) there simply
is no age at which a healthy human being can not
have and enjoy an orgasm.

You're never too old to enjoy sex and you're never
too old to begin to sharpen and improve the sexual
skills that will give you countless hours of pleasure
and full and complete control of your sexual destiny.

All you have to do is choose to do the work I teach
in my course Secret Orgasm Tips.

If you don't have this course yet, you can download
it here...

Click Here To Download Your Copy Today!

Until next time, may your orgasms be multiple and
your sex life never be the same again!

All the Best!

Sincerely,

David Van Arrick

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

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